Looking for And Doug Hensch is a long-time friend and collaborator of mine and OKA's. He is a coach and trainer and all-around cool guy. He produces and hosts an established podcast--"Looking for And." In 2020, Doug realized that he and I seemed to enjoy getting together and sharing our ideas about
Hile’s Life in and with Type–a BAPT Conversation
BAPT Conversation On February 9, 2021, the British Association for Psychological Type (BAPT) hosted and recorded a conversation with me about how I came to Type and the role that the MBTI and the Type community have played in my life and career. It was a great honor to be asked, and I greatly
Driven to Grace or Justice? Welcome to the DRiV
What kind of movie is this? I’m watching a pretty typical action movie in which the lead has been wronged in the opening scene, and she spends the rest of the movie chasing down the “bad guy” to issue her own—and through her, our—justice. Whether you’ve seen this movie or not, you’ve seen this
EQ Goes to the Movies–Emotional Self-Awareness
Emotional Self-Awareness can be hard to see Having always been a fan of movies--and using movies to support my training and coaching, I am always on the lookout for good, juicy clips that illustrate the kinds of behaviors that we at OKA teach and talk about. Emotional Intelligence lends itself--as
EQ Goes to the Movies–EQ’s Big 3
EQ's Behaviors are not all equal The EQ-i model of Emotional Intelligence details 15 elements that make up the behavioral face we each show the world--what we look and sound like to the people around us. Three of these 15 elements/behaviors are highly correlated with each other. This subset of





